Before I came up with some ideas for my new goal, I set a few general guidelines.
- This endeavour had to be a new experience,
- had to require some physical effort,
- had to require some mental effort,
- and preparation could be stretched among 2 years.
Given these few guidelines, the first thing that came to mind was ballroom dancing, specifically Latin ballroom dancing. I thought maybe I could train to dance in a Latin ballroom competition for my thirtieth birthday. I've always wanted to learn to be a sultry Salsa dancer or a passionate Paso Doble dancer. It just looks so sexy and they get to wear those cute little outfits.
So, I started researching dance studios in the area and finding out about group and individual lessons. I found a really nice dance studio and I even took a few lessons. But I quickly realized that I needed to add a few more guidelines for my new goal:
- It had to be relatively inexpensive,
- and independent, no partner or group required.
Dancing lessons are very expensive AND I would need to find a partner. Also, even if I did have the finances to go through with dance lessons and found a partner, my success would greatly depend on how good my dance instructor AND partner would be.
Too many variables: I needed my new goal to be as self-sustaining and self-fulfilling as possible, not dependent on other people. Of course I would get expert opinions and seek guidance from professionals help to work out the details and give me advice, but I wanted to be able to execute the plan by myself.
So, my next immediate idea...train for a marathon.
Exhausted from running around all day,
Almost Thirty

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